Task Husband (1)
Family Protector
Men and women are the main pillars supporting a family. However, because men blessed privilege by the Creator, and because of the power of their minds are stronger than women, they become family protectors.
Family Protector
Men and women are the main pillars supporting a family. However, because men blessed privilege by the Creator, and because of the power of their minds are stronger than women, they become family protectors.
Almighty God made man as a protector of the family and stated in the Holy Quran: The man is the leader for women, because Allah has favored some of them (men) more than others (women) .... (Sura 4:34). Therefore, men have a greater responsibility and more difficult to support their families. The men who, with discretion, can support their families and prepare everything for the happiness of his family and is able to transform a house into a haven and his wife as bidadarinya. A man is responsible for his wife to know that women are also human beings like the Like a man. Married women are not the same as hiring a maid: but it is the selection of a spouse and friends can be invited to live together a long time left in this life. Men should pay attention to him and his desires; men do not own her and she actually has certain rights against her husband.
Allah states in the Holy Quran: And women mempunyat right balance with its obligations under a kindness. However, the husband has an excess level than his wife ... (Qur'an 2:228)
Task Wife (1):
Being a husband Companion
Task wife is taking care of her husband. It was not an easy task. Women who are not aware of how to do this role, will have difficulty in carrying out their duties. For a woman who is conscious; then the task of taking care of husbands need a little wisdom, a way (method), and simplicity. To be a successful wife, a woman should be able to win the heart of her husband and a source of pleasure for him. She should encourage him to do good deeds spare den of sin. It also should provide enough doses to maintain health and well-being of her husband. Results and efforts are directed straight to make it a good husband and honored to be a proper family protector and being a father to guide and respected by their children. Knowing God has blessed her tremendous strength. Prosperity and happiness and suffering of the family, all in his hands. A woman can change her into a glorious paradise or hell that burns. He can encourage her husband to the top of the success or menjerumuskannya to misfortune. A woman with the qualities given by God to him, aware of his role as a wife, can improve the position of her husband as her husband is even honorable men of the lowest resident. A renowned scholars writes: "Women have a strange power, that is, if they want something they can get it." In Islam, the husband took care has an important position. It has been aligned with the jihad (holy war in the path of Allah). Imam Ali A.S. states: "The Jihad of a woman is to take care of him properly. If we consider that jihad is a struggle and holy war in the cause of Allah as well as the development and respect for Islam, defending the territory of Islam and the implementation of social justice, then this is one act of worship of God. The value and performance of duties of a good wife is also reflected in a jihad. Prophet. He said: "If a woman dead and her husband in a state of excited him, and go to heaven. Prophet also said: "If a woman can not perform his duties as a wife, he has not been carrying out their duties towards Allah".
Task Husband (2):
Caring Wife
Secret family welfare is how a husband caring for his wife, and this - as well as the duty of a woman to her husband, who equated with jihad - a man regarded as the best act and very valuable. But a married man should learn how to treat her until his wife turns like an angel.
For that, a man must understand the behavior Iaku his wife and about his desires. He must adjust his way of life in accordance with her wishes and rights - legal rights. He was, by nature and attitude, can affect her in a way that is interesting in themselves and their households.
Task husband (3):
Love Your Wife
A woman is the center of all the good that fully controlled by feelings. Its existence depends on love and affection. He wants to be loved by others, and the more love the better. He sacrificed himself so highly favored. The nature is very strong in her that when he realized that nobody loved him, he would consider himself to fail. He will be disappointed in him and feel wasted. Therefore, one can definitely state that the secret of successful man in life is the disclosure of his marriage his love for her. Fathers that we respect! Your wife, before she married you really enjoy the love and affection of their parents. Now, after he agreed to marriage with you, after he chose to be with you, he expects you to fulfill the wishes of love and affection. He expects you to show love Iebih than it receives from parents and friends. He has really trust you and that is why he trusts you with all existence. Secrets of a happy marriage is the expression of love to your wife. If you want to get him, if you want him to comply with your requests, if you want to strengthen your marital relationship, make her love you, or always faithful to you, or ..., then you must always show compassion and express your love to him. If you do not give your love to the wife, then he would lose appeal to her home, her children and above all, to you. Your home will always be a mess. He will not be willing to make an effort for someone who did not love. A house without love would be similar to a burning hell, even though the house was very neat and filled with items Your wife may become ill or have a mental disorder. He may be looking for fun with other people if you do not give him the satisfaction. He might be cold to you and the home so that he would want a divorce. You are responsible for all of this because you have failed to satisfy them. It is true, that the stages of divorce occurs because attitudes are not friendly. Friendship and love in the family is more valuable than anything else and that is why God has made signs and extraordinary blessings that have been given to humans. The Quran states: And among the signs of His dominion is He created for you wives from your kind self, that you tend and reassures him, and made him among you a sense of love and sayang.Sesungguhnya on such that there are signs for a people who think (Qur'an 30:21) Imam Sadiq A.S. asserts: "Whoever becomes our friend, it would be revealing her kindness to her partner. Prophet. states: "The person faithful to their partners more kindness expressed.
Imam Sadiq A.S. said: "One of the properties of God's prophets is that they are all kind to their wives. Prophet. said: "The words of a man devoted to his wife: 'I love you' will never be separated from his wife's heart. Love and compassion must of course be sincere in order to achieve one's heart, it was not enough because the feeling of love that is important. By showing your feelings in words and deeds, then love will be rewarded and your heart will also strengthen the bond of love. Berterus-manifest and do not hesitate to express his love for his wife. Both behind and in front of him you have to give kudos to him. Kirimilah letter to him when you are out of town and say you miss him. Every now and then buy something him. TeIeponlah it when you're working and ask how he was. One hal.penting in a woman's mind is the words of love such disclosure.
Task Wife (2):
Expressing Sense of Love to the Husband
All the people are hungry for friendship and kindness. They all want to be loved by others. The human heart wants so. Someone who is not loved by other people feel lonely and isolated. O women! Your husband too. He also needs love and affection. Before mating, love and affection parents have met this need, but now he expects you are filled. Men looking for a wife for love and friendship is a human need. He fought hard to earn a living and please you. She shared all the difficulties of life with you. And as a true partner Iebih you think about your happiness than your parents, then show your appreciation to him and love him, he will love you. Love is a two-way relationship which unites two hearts. A twenty-year-old boy who came to Tehran to study at university, fell in love with a 39-year-old widow who becomes landlord. This is because the woman has filled an empty spot in her heart with love. When love happens mutually, foundations become stronger marriage and separation can be avoided. Not too feel that your husband fell in love with you at first sight, because such love is not eternal. Eternal love due kindness and compassion that remain in the familiar form of friendship. If you love your husband and friends with him, then he will be happy and willing to fight and sacrifice themselves for the sake of your wellbeing. A man who felt the love of his wife, rarely suffer from poor kesehatanyang or irritability. If a man does not get the love and warm friendship of the partner, it can be insecure (low self-esteem) and are reluctant to return home. Maybe he will spend most of his time outside the house to look for friends and attention. Perhaps he said to himself: "Why should I be working for people who do not like me? Better for me to have fun myself and try to get a true friend."
There is a possibility that a woman loves her husband but rarely shows (express) its his love that. It's not enough to strengthen friendship rope and stuff like that is not justified. Occasionally, sayings such as "I love you", "I miss you", "I'm glad to meet you", is very helpful in creating a good friendship. When my husband was on his way, the wife should write a letter that she missed her husband. If there is a phone at work husband, a wife can call her occasionally, but not constantly. The wife should give praise to her husband in front of friends and family when she was not in place and defend it when someone talks bad about him. Allah said about the bonds of love and affection in the Qur'an: And among the signs is that He created for you wives of your kind, that you tend and reassures him, and maketh among you a sense of love and affection. Verily in this is true - indeed there are signs for a people who think. (Qur'an 30:21) Imam Ridha A.S. states: "Women who show love and affection unfortunately a blessing for her husband ".
Rasulullah SAW said: "The woman is the best among you are those who have love and affection ".
"Imam Sadiq said:" If you love someone, let him know ".
Task husband (4):
Honor Your Wife
A woman would be proud. himself like a man. He wanted respected by others. He is offended when he insulted or underestimated. He was pleased when honored and will feel resentful with those who humiliate
Gentlemen! Your wife certainly hope that you are more respected than others. He had every right to expect their spouse and her best friend to take care of him.
He worked for the pleasure of you and your children and that's why he expect you to appreciate and respect. No respect will make you low, but this will prove true love and you love him. Because of that, respect it Iebih than others, speak politely to him. Do not cut talk or yell at him. Call it by name honorable and good. Show your respect for him when he was about to sit down. When you enter the house, and he forgot to say hello, then recite greetings him.
Say "goodbye" when you leave. Do not break up with him when you travel or are away and home. Suratlah send him.
Show your respect for him if you both attend a meeting. Indeed it was meant to avoid any kind of humiliation and the things that offend. Do not blame or - kidding - bothered him. Do not think that because you are both too familiar with it so he does not mind you making fun of him. In contrast, He would hate that attitude but did not want to reveal it.
A noble woman, aged around 35 years, said about demand divorce: 'It's been 12 years of my marriage. My husband is fine and a lot of good qualities and praiseworthy in him. But he did not ever want to realize that I was his wife and the mother of two son. He thought he was preferred in associations, but he was always performing in a way tease me and insult me. You may not believe to what extent I have felt contempt. My soul has been much disturbed until I went to a psychiatrist for treatment. I've talked to my husband many times. I have begged him not to treat me that way. I was reminded that I was his wife, and talk about my life and joked about yourself I was in before audiences that they were laughing and having fun is improper. I felt embarrassed in front of crowds as I am not a clever joke. I can not keep up. Because My request was not accepted by my husband, so I chose to leave him. I understand that I will not be happy living own, but I can not live with someone constantly insult me.
All women expect her to respect them and they all do not like to be insulted. If a woman remained silent after being humiliated by husband them, this does not mean they like it.
If you respect your wife, she will do the same to you, and therefore your relationship will be more closely. You will be respected by others. If you treat it wrong and he felt sick liver, then again this is your fault.
Mr. Duhai good! Getting married is not the same as having slaves. You do not may treat an independent person as a slave. Your wife has married with you in order to live with you and to share life with the man she loved. He expects the together and you hope you like it. Therefore, treat it in a way that you love it too.
Imam Sadiq, quoting his father, said: "Whoever doing weddings, then he should honor his wife. "
Prophet. said: "Whoever the honor of a Muslim God will give him self-respect. "
He also insisted: "No one is to respect women except those who are generous, and no one will except insult the people who do not respect. "In addition Prophet said: "Whoever insults his family, then he will loss of happiness in his life.
Task Wife (3):
Keeping Husband
The desire for respect is something that is reasonable but not every people are ready to give it. Your husband is in touch with many people during not at home all day. Maybe some of the people there were does not apply to offend polite and let him down. Sebapi wife, you are expected to show respect and encouragement hiagga home he felt reasonably high esteem.
Honor and respect my husband will not make you low, but this will provide power and encouragement to strive to achieve life better. You should always welcome, and your welcome that he will get a feeling of honor. Do not cut it when it is talking. When talking to him, shall apply polite and full respectful and do not yell at him. Let him go first if you both attend a wedding, for example. Tell to children so that they marahilah menghorrnatinya and when applicable disrespectful to him. Honor him in front of the guests and see needs as the guests.
When he knocked on the door, you should try to open it with smile and a happy face. It has a small effect major refresh mind another husband. Perhaps some women would think with him as a stranger. This is not the right attitude because the man had fought a full day for the welfare of his family and he needs respect and welcome when arrived home. The first speech was a great influence and what whether for good also for family members.
Prophet. He said: "The job of a woman is to open the door and welcome him. "
Imam Sadiq A.S. said: "A woman who respects her husband and inconvenient not be lucky and be prosperous. "
Prophet. also said: "A woman in charge of providing a basin and towel to wash your hands of her husband. "
Be careful not to insult him, do not say rude to him, menyalahinya do, do not ignore it, and do not call him by were not good nicknames. If you attack him, he was then going to hurt you. Finally, the love and trust will be fragile. Then you will continue constantly fighting and arguing that would lead to divorce. Even if you continue to live with him, life you'll both be full of chaos. Feelings of hostility and disruption psychiatric blossom can hold up to a point that can be endanger the lives of the couple that could lead to misconduct (criminal). The following story will inenggambarkan some of the problems mentioned above:
A man, aged 22, stabbed 19-year-old wife until his death after blaming his wife. In court he recalled: "I was married to this woman a year ago. At first, my wife loves me, but he soon changed and started to insult me. He always uses obscenities to me every opportunity and always laughed at because of trivial things. Because my eyes squint, my wife was always called me by the name 'Blind mules'. One day, he called me with the title 'ass blind ', and I became so angry that I was stabbed as many as 15 times with a knife.
Task Husband (5):
Good Against Your Wife
World took a stroll in accordance with a regular pattern. Many events occur and appear one after another. Our existence in the world wide This tiny particles like that moved and attached to the another particle at any time. The speed of the world is not in the hands us, and the events that arise not happen due to our desire. Ever since the first person stepped out of the house in the morning, until the time he returned home in the afternoon, one might well find hundreds of unpleasant circumstances.
Many people find great difficulty in the arena of life. Maybe you despised by others, met a friend who was not friendly, should waiting for the bus too long, or been accused of doing something in place employment. Lose money, be robbed, or have encountered other such things it can happen to anyone, anywhere.
Perhaps you would be very upset with the events that occurred in the your life that make you similar to a time bomb that can explode at only.
Well, maybe you think that you can not blame others or the world for your disappointment, then when I got home, you directing your anger to his wife and children. You enter the house and as if Azrael (Angel of Death) has been return. Children are dismissed like the rats in front of you. God forbid you to find fault! Maybe the food is too salty or bland, your tea is not ready, the house may be a mess or noisy children, and this gives a good reason for you to get angry at your own home.
You then get mad and yell to everyone, hurting them, hit and so on. Then you will turn the house filled with love and friendship into an inferno in which you and your whole family must suffer.
If the kids can run from the house to the street, they would do it; and if not, they will count the seconds until you get out and house.
It is clear, how scary and apatisnya circumstances appear once in in such a house. There are always bickering and arguments. Home always a mess, my wife hated to see her husband's face.
How a woman can live happily with the angriest man always surly it? The worst is the situation of children who should grow in such an environment. Family quarrels certainly will leave a scar in the hearts and souls of those who are very sensitive. Children who experience such difficulties is likely to be the aggressive, angry, depressed and desperate when they grow up. They will feel sad when his family lost. They may be into the trap of those who deviate and do crime in all its forms. They may become confused and disturbed so as to endanger the lives of other people or doing suicide.
Readers are advised to conduct investigations in the areas of crime. Statistics and preach daily problems criminals all reveal this fact.
The responsibility of this lies in the head of the family is not able to control his temper and has been wrong in treating family. Such a person will not get peace in the world and in the hereafter.
Good father! We are not in a position where we can controlling world events. Accidents, difficulties and events that cause all the suffering can not be separated by life. Each person will have difficulty in different times. In fact, people will reach maturity through difficulties. People have to deal with the power and should try to find solutions. Humans have the ability to difficulties faced hundreds of both small and large, are not should not give up and take it fared poorly.
The events of the world are not the only reason to be angry, but in fact it is our nervous system are affected by the events Such and cause us to experience things that are not fun. Because, it's when someone can control himself when confronted with the difficulties of life, then people will not feel offended or angry.
For example, you are confronted by an unpleasant incident. Incident This may be an integral part of life in which we can not intervene, or we can believe the decision was itself.
Obviously, in the first case, we hurt feelings will not help at all. We become angry or guilty when angry. We must remember that we are not responsible for the incident and even tried greeted with a smiling face. But if the experience bad we are of the latter kind, then we can find solution.
If we do not give up in the face of difficulties and try control ourselves, of course, we-the wise - be overcome difficulties. In this case we would not be angry with themselves that will add to the difficulty. Therefore, a wise person would not be affected by difficulties.
We have the ability to overcome all difficulties through patience and wisdom. Is not it unfortunate when we lose control because the event that we can not elakkan in life?
Moreover, why do you have to blame the wives and children of fate is not this good?
Your wife is doing its job. He had to take care of home and children. He need washing, ironing, cooking and cleaning the house, and others. You should be encouraged to treat it properly.
The children also do their job. They were waiting for their father to make them happy. Teach things that are true to them and encourage them to learn.
Is it fair when you deal with your family and surly be angry?
They expect you to meet their needs in order to they are entitled. They expect kindness from you and want you to talk softly to them and behave fun.
They will hate you for hurting their hearts and turn the house a dark place where there is no glimmer of happiness in it.
Do you know where they are going to suffer because of your attitude rude and unpleasant?
While you do not mean it to your family, the most little mercy on yourself. You must make sure that your health be destroyed by intemperance.
How can you continue to work and successfully achieving the something? Why you have to turn your house into an inferno?
Would it not be better if you are always happy and trouble with wisdom and not with anger?
Are not you better believe that anger will not resolve issue but will even embellish problems. Do you not agree that, when at home, you have to rest and recover strength in order to get an appropriate solution to your problem with a clear mind? You should see the faces of your family smile. You should be joking around with them in a good manner and babagia trying to create an atmosphere in the home. You should eat and drink with them and the rest. Thus, you and your family will enjoy life and will address your issue easily.
That is why the holy religion of Islam considers good behavior as part of the religion and faith of the highest marks.
Rasulullah SAW. said: "Whoever Iebih good behavior, then he is more perfect faith. The best among you are those who do good to his family. "
Prophet also declared: "Nothing works better than good behavior. "
Task Wife (4):
Do not moan and spit Gratuitous Suffering
There is no one who does not have problems and suffering relating to everyday life. Anyone want to have a friend who where he pitted attentive and willing to listen problems-problems. But the thing to remember is that "all something that there is a place and time individually. People should be aware of the right time and opportunity to complain. There are women who do not care that her husband was tired and fatigued after work throughout the day. He was not waiting an hour to be atan two husbands fresh back, but even attacked him with a series of complaints. For example, the wife might say:
You left me with the kids this naughty and left. Ahmad break the glass in the front door of the front room, our daughter fight, I think I'll nenjadi crazy with the sound of children outside. It was not willing to learn at all and he got bad grades. I telab heavy work this day. I'm tired. Nobody wants to hear screams - screams.
These kids do not want to help with the housework. If I do not have a child! Nonsense with Sandara sister who came back to help me. I do not know what happened him. She behaved as if I had swallowed a legacy money father.
Hopefully God save me from your mother! He has vilify me behind. I've been satisfied with them all. Besides above, cut my finger. Oh the pain!
Unfortunately, I went to the wedding of Muhammad, yesterday. Surely you see Rashid's wife. How beautiful! God should grant the same fate to me. Indeed, there are men who loved his wife. They bought her items are beautiful-beautiful. They is true husband. When Rashid entered the room, everyone honor. It is true that people are just interested in other people than clothes outside. What the hell had I did not have? Why he was showing off in front of me? Oh yes, he was lucky to have a husband who love her, she does not like me!
I can not stand living in this house, take care of you and your children. Just do what it sukail
Such an attitude is not correct. Women like that would think that husband went pesi'ar or have fun daily. Menfolk find hundreds of issues every day. A good mother! You do not know what your husband is doing when it is working. You do not understand the people are rude and sneaky kind of what he encountered along days. So when he came home, you should not be presenting all your complaint at the same time. Do not feel guilty as ja a man. Applicable good and wise to him. When you add concerns with the nagging and whining, then he will start strife or leave right from home to a place of entertainment, cinema or even pacing the streets.
Therefore, a good mother! For God's sake, stop the complaining habit time that does exactly that. Look for the right moment and then tell me your problem in truth, not to complain but by way of asking for help solving. This way you do not creates hostile feelings within himself and family ties remain safe.
Prophet. He said: "Prayer of a woman disturbing her husband with his tongue, is not accepted by God, even though he fasted every han, up to perform prayers at night, freeing some slaves and spend money in the way of Allah. Women with tongue foul disturbing her husband in this way is the first to will enter Hell. "
a good mother! If you love your husband and your children, then you have to stop inappropriate content and attitude this nonsense. Did you ever think that your behavior is wrong it will lead to rupture your family life?
A doctor testified at trial: I have never seen my wife act as Iayaknya searang wife throughout our marriage. Our house is always a mess. He always shouting and angry. I can not stand to live with. After I gave my money to divorce. The doctor said happily : "If he wanted and asked all my wealth and even the title I as a physician, I would give it as long as could be faster part with it. "
Task husband (6):
Unnecessary Complaints
The issue is so much life. No one felt the happiness completely, but there are people who are more patient than people other. They recorded their problems in their minds and not disclose it unless there is a reason for that.
On the other hand, there are people who are so weak that it can not store issues in their hearts.
They are so used to complain that when they meet someone, they began to complain. Wherever they go and wherever they are, they complain about the everyday events that happen in life them. As if they were sent by the devil to destroy the happiness of other. That is why a lot of friends and family who can not be bothered with these properties, and try to avoid them whenever possible.
However, people should feel sorry for his wife and children in accepting this problem. Because there was no one else will listen to their complaints, and such people end up only spill their problems to her family.
Sometimes they complain about their spending, taxes to be paid, the act of friends, and sometimes they complain about co-workers, their work, disease, doctors, and so on. Man Such is pessimistic and do not want to see the merits of the exist in the world. They suffer and make others suffer, and especially their families also suffer.
Good father! What good is complaining all the time? What you get and complaining? Why did your family have to suffer when angry with driver Taxi? Why do you blame your wife if you do not work smoothly?
Do not forget that your attitude will keep you and your family. They will be disappointed in you and would hate home. They may be will even run away from home and will be stuck in corruption and crime. At least it will leave scars in their souls.
Are not you better avoid defective not to happiness your family? When you go home, try try to forget your problem. Be happy with your family. Eat with them and enjoy being with them.
Islam also considers the nature of patience and do not complain as the nature good and also has provided rewards for it.
Ali A.S. said: "When the trouble came over a Muslim, he should not complain about God to others, but he must bring the matter to the God who has the keys for each issue. "
Prophet. said: "He had trouble with the health and did not complain about it to others, then God will forgive all his sins. "
Task Wife (5)
Be Exciting
Someone who has good properties with a pleasant attitude also continue to face difficulties and problems of life are the same. However this is the kind of personality that attracts people search for. Attitudes and nature someone you love will make it immune to the chaos of life because their attitudes are overcome adversity in ways that best and worth.
Imam Sadiq A.S. said: "There is no better life than the one fun. "
But on the contrary, a person who has bad qualities will find life is not fun because it ties people like this cause anxiety and unhappiness of his life. This kind of attitude avoided by most people because it will lead to all ends with only a few friends left. Then it all became a state followed by psychological problems and diseases others are caused by anxiety and emptiness that made him not good to live.
Prophet. He said: "People who make bad attitude and nature will always get the hostility and suffering. "
A good attitude and fun is something that is important in the all the people in general and especially among couples because couples have to live together and build a life interconnected.
A good mother! If you want to enjoy the good life with her husband and children, and teach you fun and attitude accepted. Are good and do not necessarily quarrel. You are able to make your home a heaven or a hell of a great turn on. You can become a loving angel where children and husband will find peace in yourself. Do you know how wonderful impression you leave it in their hearts through the beautiful smile and the language smooth. The pleasant impression is always fresh da! Their memories am when they go to work or to school and help them to start a beautiful day.
Therefore, if you care for the quality of your life and your relationships with your husband, do not behave well. Be kind, because the pillars The main support for the security of marriage is regulated ethics well that lead to a pleasant attitude.
Most divorces occur due to differences in nature between husband and wife. From the data it can be concluded that statatistik couples who do not divorce are the similarities in attitudes, moral values, and character. The main source of discord and Family quarrels are differences of character and values and principle - the principle of ethics.
Scorang woman complained in court that her husband always have lunch and dinner outside. Then her husband explained that the reason why he always eating out is because his wife did not cause the desire to eat and that she is the worst character in the world. Suddenly the wife got up and started beating her husband in the presence of the prosecutor.
Women's stupid to think that by complaining, hurt and beat up her husband she can bring back home. However, he did not using a simple and smart way is to be more careful and look for ways Iebih reasonable.
Another woman reported to the court that her husband had not been talked to him for 15 months and that he gave the home shopping ladder through his mother. Her husband replied that he had enough to hold the ugly character of his wife that made him decide to not talked to him for 15 months.
Most family quarrels can be resolved by the balkan heart, love affection and good disposition. If you are not good-natured husband, when he went dinner alone, if he likes to hurt, squander all wealth, saying things about separation and divorce or a cause of family feuds, there is only one way to overcome. The trick is to be kind and to be kind. Result than this amazing act.
Imam Sadiq A.S. said: "Allah will reward people with character like those who strive. He will give blessing to the day and night. "
Imam Sadiq A.S. said: "Women are annoying and make him anxious, deprived of the blessings of Allah, and women who respects her husband, obedient and do not make him suffer, will receive blessings and prosperity. "
There is a hadith which narrate that the Prophet Muhammad. diheritahu about the existence of a woman who fasted every day, and do prayers at night, but he had a bad temper and always hurt his neighbor with a sharp tongue. The Prophet replied: "No kindness to him and he is the Fire. "
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Husband Duties: - Fight - Do not find fault with your wife - Forgive your wife errors
Wife Tasks: - How to face the husband's family - Women who easily suspect - Help your husband to come forward
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